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For the past couple of weeks, though, I can only do about 4 sets of that before I give in and use the extra 6 counts I've accumulated to finish a 25 rep set early to get a longer break.Daddit's tagline may as well be "Dad is as Dad does". And anyway that's true of you folks too--she is who she is in part because of you. She will be taller because you feed her well, stronger because you play with her, funny like you or serious because you're too silly-- she really will be a mix of you and her mom.Maybe under the supervision of a therapist who assigns them they could be a useful tool, but some couples might unintentionally misuse them. Keeping score sounds like a bad idea. I know this is late, but reading the book that goes with these is probably important. The goal of fair play cards is not to split the cards evenly, it's to communicate ...Gamer dads, assemble! The Papa Squad is a community of 2000+ gamer dads looking to socialize, exchange parenting tips and sometimes play games (when time allows!)/r/daddit is now currently open Members Online My social worker recommended free feeding, so we've been useing a basket system, was showing it to my friends on snap, my mum replied and said "your going to make her fat" and now I'm unsure, advice would be appreciatedStruggling with the loss of any free time. 1.5 year old kiddo is amazing and I love her to death. This past week my wife got COVID so we've been isolating away from her. I've had day care to watch her during the weekdays, but I had to be the only parent for the last couple days. It's not this small amount of time that is bothering me, but the ...Sympathetic weight gain. It's a thing. It can be. Everyone knows about a woman's hormones during pregnancy, but many don't know about men's hormones. Our bodies know what's up and your hormones start surging, especially as she gets closer to delivering. Plus, after delivery men get post partum hormones! Babies, especially unsettled ones, can require an immense amount of patience and empathy. They also feed off your emotions. Try to put out calm, soothing vibes. Sing a relaxing song - it will also help you control your breathing and keep you calm. First, unless it's something she specifically asked for, give no gifts that require plugging-in. Men often value electronic gadgets much more than their wives do, and this helps avoid that common pitfall. Second, never give a labor-saving device. The one exception to this rule is the gift of actual labor. Family Vehicle Recommendations. As a new member of the Daddit community and having a 3 month old, we've quickly learned that a car seat takes up ALOT of space...we are trying to find a vehicle with 3 rows but these damn full size SUV's are just SO EXPENSIVE espeically with the markups at this time. What are ya'lls take on the perfect family ...Still no kids at any of these parks. Suburbs of city’s to small towns. Nothing. We theorize that it’s primarily cause of all the creepers and incidents around the world included with the access to modern technology. But you don’t even see parents with their kids at parks. Every week we have the park to ourselves.ADMIN MOD. UPDATE: I think I failed my son (5) Story. Hello members of Daddit, I don't really know how to introduce this, so I'll just start. First of all, I would like to thank every single one of you that commented on my post. My wife and I found a huge amount of solace in how warm and kind you all were, and it made dealing with the last ...And they all said that we were making a huge mistake and leather (or faux leather) is the way to go with small children. Easier with spills and holds up longer. My wife and I had never heard this before, so she turned to me and said that I should ask daddit. Off topic, shout out to you all for my wife trusting your opinions more than her siblings.Daddit is fine, I'm a "girldad" and wouldn't want to participate in a sub just for girldads, because the only topics I can think of that would differ between girldads and boydads I don't want to discuss with a bunch of strange men on the internet. 1. Reply. 22 votes, 56 comments. true.This is a place to ask feminists your questions and to discuss the issues with feminists. If you've wondered what most feminists think about certain things, what our response is to certain issues, how we think certain things should be handled, or why we have adopted the positions and stands that we have, this is your place to get your questions answered! Or …1st Christmas gift ideas for my daughter. Hey Dads. So we’ve always been the type to gift each other experiences as opposed to materials that are just going to be thrown out. But obviously I want my daughters first Christmas to be fun. We have a fair amount of toys and books and have music classes for her. Any other ideas that will be fun for ...This book is really good during pregnancy and supports a lot of ideas about pregnancy with data, and disproves a lot of things people think are true but aren't really. A really popular book. Happiest Baby on the Block. HBOTB is really great for the first 3 months after delivery (which the author refers to as the fourth trimester).57% of millennial dads treat fatherhood as a central aspect of their identity. Their score was only 1% less than women's responses. Most millennial dads spend seven hours a week on childcare versus the 2.5 dads spent in 1965. (As a comparison, Millennial women spend 14 hours a week on childcare) four times as many dads are taking paternity ...Side or Stomach Position - The back is the only safe sleeping position. But, it makes crying babies cry even more because they feel a bit like they're falling. The side or stomach position cancels that feeling and switches on the calming. Shushing - Shushing is "music to your baby's ears.".Do you ever feel like moving away and starting over? Some context: I have 3 kids, 2 girls and a boy aged 5, 3 and 2. I love them to death, more than anything in the world, but I haven't been able to see them due to court orders and their mothers. The mothers were given full custody due to my financial situation, and I was stuck with over $1000 ...jsprague6. •. It also puts them in a much more human light if that makes sense. Like when you're little you think your parents know everything since they're the ultimate authority figures in your life. Then you have kids and you don't know what the hell you're doing so you just do your best every day./r/daddit is now currently open Members Online I'm not a big drinker, but after having a child I understand how the slow but steady descent into high functioning alcoholism can happen.Distance yourself from the bully. Don't associate with him or her. If that's not possible, then stand up for yourself and just tell the bully you're sick and tired of their bullying, and you're not going to accept it anymore. Bullying is a gift from a bully that isn't required to be accepted.It is not normal for us to do it alone. It is temporary and miserable and you will make it through. That one year mark is a glorious one and then when they are two, hello personality! That is when the magic truly sets in. Good luck. You will make it, trust yourself, be kind to yourself and family and be proud. 2./r/daddit is now currently open Members Online I really feel like the representation of dad's in children's media, and these 'women empowerment' podcasts is driving a wedge between my wife and I.This week, Natasha interviewed Lizzie Matusov, the co-founder and CEO of Quotient, which wants to fix the "leaky pipeline problem" in tech onboarding. Hello, and welcome back to Eq...You can even go the extra mile and use Midjourney and/or Dall-E to animate key scenes from the story, then just print and laminate it yourself for a custom board book bedtime story. There's a ton of reasons to be concerned about AI/AGI now/in the future, but this is certainly one of the more wholesome applications for sure.She's going to have to hit a gym or resistance train at home. I think step one is identifying the goal, the bare minimum to get results, then a simple exercise of putting the time in a calendar and helping her not worry by picking up some parenting slack. For what it's worth, my career was in the field and this simple stuff seems to work.Air fryer. I asked for the 11-in-one thing, about $120. Gift certificate to get my nails done. Gifts of time: Clean the garage. Mop the floors once. Help me rototill the garden next spring. Oooh - take the kids to your mother's and let me sit alone in the house for the whole day and do whatever I want.Deadbeat Dad Abroad. I'm a new dad in my early 30s with an 8 month-old daughter. My fiancé and I were surprised by the news, especially because of the timing… my MIL was diagnosed with breast cancer the same week, so we decided to have the baby in my fiancé's hometown to help care for her mother at the same time. This town is in Brazil.Get a copy of Love and Logic and use it religiously. The concept is to give kids more control over their life which in turns reduces behaviors. As a foster parent specializing in kids no one else wants (challenging behaviors), I use this from day one and rarely have a child that doesn't respond almost immediately.In my view, people only have a moral responsibility for situations in which they had a choice or took part in the decision-making process. If the grandparents encouraged the parents to have kids or made promises of support, then I would agree they have a moral obligation. But most of the time that isn't the case.Honestly r/daddit, you guys are flipping brilliant. The advice is amazing and it's not even me posting. I've got a three month old, I understand where you're coming from. He's starting to laugh and make silly faces and it makes things easier. Doesn't mean it's not a hard ride, and sometimes I wish I had more freedom.Sympathetic weight gain. It's a thing. It can be. Everyone knows about a woman's hormones during pregnancy, but many don't know about men's hormones. Our bodies know what's up and your hormones start surging, especially as she gets closer to delivering. Plus, after delivery men get post partum hormones!/r/daddit is now currently open Members Online. Found this in my infant's mouth. It's approximately half a inch long (13mm), extremely sharp, we have no idea where it ...Long story short I love my son. He's the best thing in the world but honestly it's been a rocky ride. I suffered post partum depression for months after he was born and overall he didn't sleep the first year of life unless being held.This article explores how fathers seek information and support online, especially on Reddit and Facebook groups, as they navigate gender roles and parenting challenges. It also examines how fathers …You can loop any sound and there are numerous options for white noise. The dohm white noise machine. 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I really just feel like my friends have just ...Depending on your area local hospitals might have support groups for dads with depression or depression in general. I don't mean to pry or be insensitive, but maybe a group based around PPD (if your depression is due to your child). I hope I helped, feel free to PM me if you need to talk. 2. Reply.I did it. My wife went on a walk with the baby and I took a 10 minute nap. 5 minuets in my wife called and asked me to put away the pumped milk she had in her pump bag. In my haze I did not. It's 4 hours later and she is pissed.Works well for my daughter. Doesn't come with mic so can't use for calls. It does have noise limiting feature. From someone who is losing hearing at early age due to loud music due to shitty earphones, my advice is to stick to noise limiting earphones/headphones for kids. So they are chinese-ium but I bought Mpow Bluetooth headphones for my two ...Plus, r/daddit just happens to be fantastic and amazing. You're in the right place. You're in the right place. Stay strong, and don't be afraid to lean on your SO, you guys are there for each other and it works -- that's why you're together.I think daddit should really make some offshoot subreddits or discords. The baby bumpers subreddit has offshoots for every month. My bumpers group from 2018 is pretty active and has an active discord group. I think daddit need some of that energy, so you have people going t same milestones around the same time.Discussion on all things onaholes. What’s new what to get excited about where to shops and review. No spamming! You post should add context to your post so others can contribute discussion. Rules. 1. No self promotions, only exceptions are during Black Friday which posts must be approved by a mod. 2. No posts of onaholes depicting Loli art. 3. …/r/daddit is now currently open Members Online Mom had a rough day with the kids, so we're set up in the driveway, making pancakes, drinking a flat Coke while the they play on the splash padGreat for babies and kids: The Hatch Rest is a great option for parents who want to create a relaxing sleep routine for their little ones. It can also be used as a night light and sound machine for adults. Affordable: This is a great option for those who are looking for a simple and effective white noise machine.Filling the gap isn't the solution. Best solution is to build a setback using stair treads or similar so that your gate is across the front edge with no gap. Depending on where you're located, I may be able to recommend a local childproofing company that could help. Examples.The three most popular subreddits related to parenting are r/Parenting with 3,524,346 members, r/Mommit with 290,837 members, and r/Daddit with 265,191 …Air fryer. I asked for the 11-in-one thing, about $120. Gift certificate to get my nails done. Gifts of time: Clean the garage. Mop the floors once. Help me rototill the garden next spring. Oooh - take the kids to your mother's and let me sit alone in the house for the whole day and do whatever I want.Being anxious means you value your kid, and you take your role as a dad seriously. In that sense, it's a good sign! But rest assured, it will pass with time and you'll find your flow as a dad. Grace to you on your journey as a dad! My son is 2.5, I've been anxious since the day we brought him home.They do it to themselves and now they are living in a society with angry kids. You asked for it, jerk. Look at all these posts about these kids being angry at their dads. And their reply is "evil kids" or some dumb crap like that. Many dads are really evil and they are hiding behind a society that only likes men.r/daddit: /r/daddit is now currently open Press J to jump to the feed. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Search all of Reddit.Wired connection (powerless functionality) Bluetooth. The headphones I've (hopefully) narrowed it down to are: JBL JR310 BT - Bluetooth Wireless Headphones for Kids. Belkin SOUNDFORM Mini - AUD002btBL. Onanoff BuddyPhones (undecided on various models) PowerLocus P2 Bluetooth Headphones for Kids.Dad/Daddy and Mum/Mummy. The grandparents were a bit more tricky; they wanted to be called gee-ma and gee-pa, but our eldest could do the gee sound when she first started talking.First time choking in 2+yrs. Story. My son choked for the first time since he has been in this world. Just like a normal dinner, he had his PB chicken (our take on PF Chang's lettuce wraps), blueberries, strawberries, some crackers, and some other stuff. He has eaten this meal a thousand times. My wife was feeding our 4mo old on the couch and .../r/daddit is now currently open Members Online. Pregnancy is a cheat code. upvotes · ...First, unless it's something she specifically asked for, give no gifts that require plugging-in. Men often value electronic gadgets much more than their wives do, and this helps avoid that common pitfall. Second, never give a labor-saving device. The one exception to this rule is the gift of actual labor.When your daughter arrives, you'll realize the only difference is that you're less likely to get pee in your face when you change her diapers. Every kid has their own personality that makes such a bigger difference than gender does, and you can raise her however you like. Reply. stillbleedinggreen.Use them wrapped in a small blanket and tied a bit with some string/rope. This prevents flopping and gives a more realistic and nice experience over-all. Use a low amount of thin lube. From the onaholes that i've tried my absolute favourite is …It is the tiniest of takeaways, but your willingness to share helped myself and many others here on reddit/daddit pause life, contemplate how lucky we are to have what we have, and take the time to hug our kids a few extra times. I am grateful to you and to your daughter for that.ADMIN MOD. UPDATE: I think I failed my son (5) Story. Hello members of Daddit, I don't really know how to introduce this, so I'll just start. First of all, I would like to thank every single one of you that commented on my post. My wife and I found a huge amount of solace in how warm and kind you all were, and it made dealing with the last ...They’re both doing the normal things you expect of boys their age, like testing boundaries and causing general chaos everywhere they go. They feed off each other’s energy and are those loud kids who run around and jump and yell no matter the environment. It’s their personalities and I don’t fault them, but I’m struggling with trying ...Tawfiq Ammari, Sarita Schoenebeck, and Daniel M Romero. 2018. Pseudonymous parents: Comparing parenting roles and identities on the Mommit and Daddit subreddits. In Proceedings of the 2018 CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems. ACM, 489. Google Scholar Digital Library; Lisa Anthony, Yoo Jin Kim, and Leah Findlater. 2013.We focused on three parenting forums, including r/Daddit, a subreddit for "Dads. Single Dads, new Dads, Step-Dads, tall Dads, short Dads, and any other kind of Dad."Do you ever feel like moving away and starting over? Some context: I have 3 kids, 2 girls and a boy aged 5, 3 and 2. I love them to death, more than anything in the world, but I haven't been able to see them due to court orders and their mothers. The mothers were given full custody due to my financial situation, and I was stuck with over $1000 ...Step1: if the baby can't be soothed. Cradle your baby in your arm and hold tight to your chest (tight, not crushing). Step2: DO SQUATS. This is the magic part. The deeper the squat the better. About 2 squats every second or two. Very fast. This is to disorient the baby.
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Depending on your area local hospitals might have support groups for dads with depression or depression in general. I don't mean to pry or be insensitive, but maybe a group based around PPD (if your depression is due to your child). I hope I helped, feel free to PM me if you need to talk. 2. Reply.Hi there! Our 3.5 year old son will not stop asking for food all day long. I’ll be honest I’m really starting to get frustrated about it. He will eat and then 5-10 minutes later say he’s hungry./r/daddit is now currently open Members Online Mom had a rough day with the kids, so we're set up in the driveway, making pancakes, drinking a flat Coke while the they play on the splash padThere's too much to go into in words. But we've been married for 16 years have two kids and both work full time. I make the lions share of income.Apr 21, 2018 · We draw on seven years of data from three major parenting subreddits-Parenting, Mommit, and Daddit-to investigate what topics parents discuss on Reddit and how they vary across parenting subreddits. /r/daddit is now currently open Members Online Mom had a rough day with the kids, so we're set up in the driveway, making pancakes, drinking a flat Coke while the they play on the splash padDaddit is fine, I'm a "girldad" and wouldn't want to participate in a sub just for girldads, because the only topics I can think of that would differ between girldads and boydads I don't want to discuss with a bunch of strange men on the internet. 1. Reply. 22 votes, 56 comments. true. Daddit is better than 95% of Reddit with not giving overly dramatic advice so I’m not going to give overly dramatic advice either. Wait and see what the next few days bring. But know a stranger agrees that you’ve got a problem on your hands. Stay sturdy in front of the kids and hold firm on your beliefs. Hopefully this will pass. All this to say, even if it dampens the generally positive atmosphere on Daddit, I think it is one of the most important things we can do in this community. This should be a space where Dads can come and get support to sort out their relationships because the way their relationship plays out has an impact on their kids. It can set up patterns ...Daddit is fine, I'm a "girldad" and wouldn't want to participate in a sub just for girldads, because the only topics I can think of that would differ between girldads and boydads I don't want to discuss with a bunch of strange men on the internet. 1. Reply. 22 votes, 56 comments. true./r/daddit is now currently open Members Online Mom had a rough day with the kids, so we're set up in the driveway, making pancakes, drinking a flat Coke while the they play on the splash padI'm a stay at home dad and i love my wife I love my 2 sons (4 & 18m) but sometime I just feel so lonely as a parent. I'm writing this is the parking lot of a board game meet up where unfortunately the group had already started a game that was gonna take a while.And yet, I’m tired 90% of the time. Here’s what I do: view sunlight, drink water, and take a walk first thing in the morning. drink coffee 90 mins after waking. fast until ~noon. work from home job with frequent “stand up and stretch/walk” breaks. life weights 4 times a week. take multiple supplements, including D3, b complex, magnesium.And 529 funds can be used to pay for off-campus housing but only up to what on-campus housing would cost. There are two more you need to know then.... - A 529 can be used to pay off student loans, up to $10,000 worth. - Money from a 529 can also be contributed to a Roth IRA, up to $35,000 worth.On those nights, I can usually get about 2-3 hours of "me time," which usually means gaming in my case. You're still right in the beginning, and for the next few months, it's pure survival mode. Free time is going to be a very rare commodity for a while. That will ebb and flow as she starts to grow and develop.ADMIN MOD. My son is 3% blueberries. Story. He weighs 25lbs and just ate an entire pint of blueberries which weighs about 3/4lbs. Therefore my son is 3% blueberries by weight. Edit: I just realized I’d have to eat almost 5.5lbs of blueberries to achieve the same corporeal concentration of blueberries. 12hr update: no BM as of yet… weird kid.Impossible-Ebb-643. •. We have the VM901 and have no issues. We also noticed most monitors had bad reviews, but we wanted a handheld and Wi-Fi so the baby sitter can watch them and we could also watch when out on date nights, etc. highly recommend. Reply reply. DinosaurSpaceTrain. •..